I read this in my Al-Anon book yesterday morning.
A man is not complete who believes that his advancement depends on crushing others.
Or who worries about matters that cannot be altered.
Or who insists that a thing is impossible because he has not been able to do it.
That man is short of wisdom who cannot put aside his ordinary routine in order to refresh his mind with rest, change, and meditation.
He needs much help who thinks he can compel others to do what seems right to him
What does this say to you?